Assraw Jim I hope things get better for you guys one way or another, I'm sure no one is really happy. I feel for you bro. I just wanted to tell you I'm sorry your going through this it can be tough. also didn't you guys just recently move? I can imagine things have been crazy for you. hang in there.
My only experience with divorce has been from the old-enough-to-be-sentient kid's POV, but...it's a nasty, nasty thing, and I do know how it can chew people up. I watched it. You should have said something sooner. I think there are most likely quite a lot of us here who are able to sympathise, and you'd have had a little less time feeling like you were going to explode, at least. I know we don't know each other well, but if another (unbiased) ear would be helpful, please PM.
Yeah been in new house less than a year, I was pretty happy there. I liked it. She's wanted two kids, I've wanted one. Literally the exact same day I planned to tell her at night I was ready for another was when this fell to shit. I saw a couple at the store. Wife, girlfriend, whatever, very very pregnant. Them laughing about shit as he had to do basically everything. I was about to tell her, that fucking night, hey, let's do this together. Like, obvious personal bias, shit is fucking heartbreaking. I spent that night in a hotel, I planned on spending it attached to her
Assraw: Like it or not, you're a part of our little turking community, and I hope that you can hold on to the good stuff you've got in your life, like your son, and let the rest of it flow around you like water. I'm just J. Random Guy on the Internet, but I've always liked your work ethic, and your sense of humor, and all you add to the board. I'm sorry that you're going through that. It will get better. It always does, eventually.
Has and did. One thing to just consistently be a shithead, another to know you were right there and were just a little too late. I am shattered. But, as I go to sleep, remember the kid about to turn three. AJD ain't offing himself or anything, he's got that to protect and ya ain't got to worry about it. Just really sad, fam.
It's all right, man. We're all grownups here, we can handle it. Thank you for being willing to talk to us. I hope you can get some rest.
Nowhere near, bro. Still working on 12k. This week, while it started FAB, has been a bit slow for me. I shall get you, though, Gadget. Next time!
It might be too soon for this, but: where the kid's concerned at least, this is for the best. He won't remember anything that happens now; it has a better chance of not getting to him the way it might to a kid that was old enough to understand what was happening. Though I admit to bias on this subject.
I barely have the attention span and stamina to reach 200 HITs in a day. I can't even imagine maxing out. I admire your patience, TurkorTreat!
Thanks man! I posted it because Sat and Sun are brutal. I'm prepared to unleash a 15-18 hour a day each, however.
It's something you build up. The reality is that I've been around computers and staring at screens for looong hours for about the last 15 years of my life. Used to play marathon Chess games on line, for example. I mean, literally all day, all night. Streaks this year of 18,18 and 21. This is my longest for sure.
I'm very much assuming you have masters, because I don't, and I know darn well even if I sat here from Midnight to midnight I wouldn't get 3,000hits a day.