A while back, when you shared your relationship issues here before, owning your anger issues, etc., I had empathy and sympathy for you. You sounded mature and concerned. After you writing this above on a public forum though, about someone you once loved.... meh.
nah you're right. the truth is that i'm handling it with humor and i am concerned for her health and well-being and i've actually got my phone right beside me right now in the event that she calls, but i need to keep reminding myself that getting emotionally involved is a problem.
We all have it hard. We all carry things we deal with in different ways. For me, when I feel out of control in a situation, I look at what I can control, and what my part is. I got plenty of work there.
Cheers vs Frasier . Go!!! I vote Cheers Sorry if off topic, but am going through another Cheers marathon, on season 6 again.
that's a smart move. a lot of this was me trying to control something and someone that was and is not functional enough and perhaps not willing enough to help either the relationship or herself. i tried everything i could and i sincerely wish her the best. i've privately discussed very specific details with a couple people here and even if it sounds like i'm being flippant now i wouldn't dare, even though i am very careful not to reveal my identity here, put them on here. i'll just say it doesn't work, and as much as i'm at fault, i sincerely try very hard on a daily basis. perhaps too much.
Those are two wild and crazy guys right there. Love the outfits, wish we'd go back to eclectic 70's type dress again here in the future.
Calling your recent ex "cray cray", after asking for help and your deep anger issues on the forum previously... You publicly publishing this information, is asking for feedback. It sounds like you are still angry at her, if you're calling her "cray cray" somewhere public. I had sympathy before, and now not so much. Counseling and support groups are great places to work through much of this.
no, you are in the right! i never claimed to be the most stable individual and this is all valuable feedback. mean that sincerely. i have a lot to work on as a person and i take criticism into consideration.
I don't know if he's asking for sympathy. I went through defending my ex boyfriend on this forum about two weeks before breaking up with him for cheating on me. I went from adoration and totally willingness and eagerness to work through our problems to compete disdain for the person who I was with for nearly six years. Going through a break up is hard.
I am going through a breakup. A fresh one. And... I'm talking to a counselor. And I went to a support group this past week. We all have it hard. We just deal with it in different ways.