OMG, I am so sorry to hear all of this. I can't imagine going through all of that, and refuse to allow my children to do so. I believe that if he really wants to get better, there are ways that I can be there for him and help him and maybe even have our family, but that is going to have to be up to him. At this point, my main priority is my kids and making sure that they are secure and safe and don't have to go without basic necessities. I know he has to save himself and am going to do what I have to to protect us first (physically and legally) and then help him after, if he even wants help. If not, at least I will know that we are okay and that I did everything I believed that I could do. I have already gone above and beyond what anyone else in my position would do, so I am satisfied with what I did do. But after this last arrest, and all of last night's admissions, I believe he is where he needs to be right now and it's the safest place for him and his family and our remaining property.